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Women Divided (Them v. Us)

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After watching the YouTube video Dr. Evans posted, I could not stop myself from reading the comments people made about the video. A lot of the watchers loved the video, the music, the hair, the clothes, and the atmosphere of the party. However, there were comments that consisted of phrases like “black lesbian women” and revolved around themes of fornication and sin. I find it interesting that it seems that when there is a group of women with no man around, they are automatically labeled lesbian.  I feel like these particular comments also touch upon the possibility that there is a fine line between being sensual and being sexual.

Despite these comments about the apparent sex in the video, what caught my attention more was a comment stating that there was not one white lady in the video, which constituted it being racist. I found this statement interesting because race and gender seem to be key characteristics that many people use to define or distinguish themselves and more importantly to do the same to other people.

The ways in which we use race and gender as characteristic markers each with their own attributes is exemplified in Ann Petry’s The Street. Specifically, in this novel race is used as a divider by women, separating white women from black women. This racial division within the gender of woman is clearly depicted by Mrs. Chandler’s friends, who are certain that Lutie or any other “good-looking colored wench” poses a sexual threat around Mr. Chandler because “they’re always making passes at men. Especially white men” (41). Furthermore, Mrs. Chandler’s mother holds the same regard toward Lutie, for Lutie is attractive and colored and “you know how they are” (45). These statements reflect the belief that to be young, attractive, and colored is to be a whore or sexually deviant. Because there is an emphasis on Lutie being colored, these statements also reflect the unspoken belief that women who are not colored (i.e., who are white) are not sexually promiscuous or sexually deviant. In sum, all women in general are failed to be seen as sexual beings which creates the them versus us mentality, where them are the sexually threatening colored girls and us are the properly behaved white girls. This mentality becomes ironic in that instead of worrying about colored girls, Mrs. Chandler’s friends should probably be more worried about Mrs. Chandler herself who appears to pay “a lot more attention to other women’s husbands” than her own husband (44). This racial emphasis on the gender of woman is similarly present when Lutie discovers that her husband is cheating on her with another woman. Upon seeing this other woman in her home with her husband and child, Lutie is hit with the realization that for months this “black bitch” had been intruding on her territory (54). Once again, women as a single group is overlooked because the other woman is not just a bitch, she is a black bitch. The descriptive use of black further perpetuates the idea that colored women are the ones who will ruin another woman’s marriage because sexual promiscuity is part of their disposition. In just the first four chapters of this novel, it appears that race is placed so far in the foreground that it overshadows the camaraderie women can achieve through a shared gender such as being seen as objects of sexual attraction by men. It will be interesting to see the progression of this barrier of race within the gender of woman.

4 thoughts on “Women Divided (Them v. Us)

  1. You can’t really take youtube comments at face value, people always hide behind the anonymity of the internet to spew racist hateful nonsense. For the most part it’s probably 12 year olds who really don’t understand what they’re saying. Anyway, great post! The division drawn between the sexuality of black women vs. white women is a great point, especially when juxtaposed with the behavior of Mrs. Chandler.

    • “For the most part it’s probably 12 year olds who really don’t understand what they’re saying.”

      Dying, Gunner. So true. I almost never look at YouTube comments anymore because it just makes me apoplectic.

  2. I agree with Gunner about the youtube comments, people love to start a fight, and will say anything in order to provoke people. That being said however, there are people who really do think that way in this world, and it’s a problematic aspect of our culture.

    I’m really glad you pointed out the fact that Mrs. Chandler is the promiscuous one, not Lutie. She flirts with other women’s husbands in front of her own family, while her friends are warning her of her maid, who has no interest in any of their spouses. Often people are so focused in what they expect of others, they are blind to what is actually happening around them.

  3. I agree with both you and Gunner about youtube comments. In no way do I think everyone is entirely serious about what they post, but I do think that the material in the comments must come from somewhere, either in the media or from everyday interactions. The reason I find the comments off-putting is that some people who have social and political do think that way, and it is these people in positions of power that make the most ‘ruckus’ and make decisions that can negative impact people who are not essentially like them.

    Thank you both for the comments and likes!!

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